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Help- Lost Trust in Doctor - remraekitty - 01-19-2021 Hi, I have never posted here before, brand new. Someone on Reddit directed me to this forum, and maybe you all can help. My doctor diagnosed me with sleep apnea without explaining his diagnosis, and although I know you can't give me official medical advice, I need some opinions. Sorry for the length I was diagnosed with idiopathic Hypersomnia about ten years ago- I had an MSLT and a PSG. 2011 PSG:
Fast forward to today- I moved to a different state. The doctor said I needed a new MSLT and psg before he would prescribe me any medication. I said fine, and somehow scraped together the $6k. General Sleep Study 2020
MSLT 2020: PHYSICIAN INTERPRETATION:
My post-study appointment went fine, he said I had a great night sleep, but that I was super sleepy during the day, so medication is warranted. He specifically said there were no significant apneas, and that idiopathic Hypersomnia was the correct diagnosis. He said if I had one more REM cycle during my daytime nap study, he could diagnose me with narcolepsy, and it would open up more treatment options due to insurance. He said we could try a different medication (I had been on adderall previously), but I said since I had been off my medication for two weeks prior to the study, I wanted to catch up on work and not have to deal with a medication that potentially might not work. We could reevaluate at my next appointment in three months. Next appointment came, and he said ok time to get you fitted for your CPAP machine. I was like um???? what?????? This was when our hospitals were completely full and he was rushing around, and I didn't feel comfortable asking questions - he just pushed some masks on me and told me to choose one. I was really uncomfortable, and when I did ask a question he said this was what we discussed and this is his treatment plan. I was like uh ok and just left, feeling very confused, but I brushed it off. I should have pushed for an explanation but I felt like it would inconvenience him. I had another appointment a couple months later, and he immediately asked me why I didn't have my CPAP machine with me. I said I didn't have the money for it right now, but that in 2 months a new insurance plan kicks in with better coverage. I then pushed a bit, asking why this wasn't brought up at the first appointment and when sleep apnea became my diagnosis. He said it was always this way, and to follow the treatment plan or else I would never see progress. I didn't feel comfortable pushing further. I then contacted two other sleep medicine doctors in my state, and they said they would not see me for a second opinion because my doctor was their professor in med school. I was kind of floored, and I feel very stuck because I don't agree with the diagnosis. I was sleepy ten years ago, and it was confirmed I did not have sleep apnea. Now I am just as sleepy, and the doctor says this is the cause. It doesn't make sense to me. I see in the results that there was an AHI of 10 when prone, but a couple things:
RE: Help- Lost Trust in Doctor - Sleeprider - 01-19-2021 You certainly have a great deal of data and information from your studies. That sounds really expensive! Only in the one study was any apnea documented, and that would be classified as mild, and certainly doesn't explain the extreme sleepiness you experience. The idea you technically missed a diagnosis of narcolepsy by one REM cycle seems absurd. The question unanswered, is, what would happen if you didn't consult with specialists, and just used your regular doctor to manage your health, sleep disorder and any other issues? The sleep specialty is extremely dysfunctional, even in easy cases. You should see how people with severe central apnea are treated when the doctors refuse to acknowledge anything other than obstructive sleep apnea exists. That is a preliminary thought, and curious what your relationship is with your primary doctor. RE: Help- Lost Trust in Doctor - SarcasticDave94 - 01-19-2021 Yep specialists are buggy and very hit or miss. Either they're good or bad, and most end up bad. See what the PCP/primary doc says about supporting the needs. RE: Help- Lost Trust in Doctor - kwhenrykerr - 01-19-2021 I quit my sleep doctor quickly after getting more help from my General Dr. and the information on this site. It is a lot of reading and following the post to listen to many ideas. Get a cpap that can give information and OSCAR help. You may not need it but you need information you can feel good about. Your education is the reason for this great group of people. RE: Help- Lost Trust in Doctor - DaveL - 01-19-2021 remraekitty Welcome to the forum! Really good people have responded with good information. Me? I don't know as much as them. But I rely on their help and recommend them! RE: Help- Lost Trust in Doctor - Dormeo - 01-20-2021 Did you ever try the second medication? It can be difficult to push back against a doctor like your sleep doctor. If you can't get help from your regular doctor, here are a couple of thoughts about re-engaging with your sleep doctor. * Write out what you want to say ahead of time. This should include summaries of the results of the two sleep tests, plus a description of your current condition. It should also include your specific questions. * Rehearse. See how long it takes you to go through your points/questions. If it's less than 10 minutes, it's a reasonable length. If it's longer, you might want to tighten it up a little. * Begin the appointment by going through your prepared points. If he tries to interrupt, say, "I'd like to finish speaking before we start our discussion. This will take me around N more minutes." * Check to see whether he has answered each of your questions to your satisfaction. If he hasn't, raise them again. Say something like: "I appreciate what you've said, but I'm not hearing an answer to the question about [...]." * Have someone sit in on the appointment with you. This person can help you by taking notes and intervening if necessary, by addressing you, "Have you gotten an answer to your question about [...]? And actually these can be good strategies for interacting with any health-care professional. The good ones will appreciate the thought you've put into preparing for the appointment. |