I'm on to about #5 now and this one has its pro's but still has cons. I now remember why I gave up the initial try
#5 was from amazon, is the right density to not be able to tuck my chin inside it, as well as being close enough to the right height. However, its too high on the sides pushing up my ears waking up sore, as well as somehow making me wakeup with my teeth digging in to my lower lip to the point its incredibly sore and I have a divot in it for the rest of the day
I woke up the first couple of nights mid sleep to rip it off, but I have attached my first successful full nights sleep with it on and no chin tucking. Never mind, I managed to somehow flip the SD card to read-only again
#4 was the caldera, ordered the largest size and it is still about 5cm off closing the velcro. #3 was a chemist(drugstore) that was the right length but too soft, #2 was another chemist with the wrong height. #1 was wrong on all accounts. Maybe by number 10 i'll have something usable