Let me come clean here. This person in the first post isn't really a family member; it is me. I self-diagnosed from symptoms (waking up gasping, loud snoring, sleepiness, large neck size, high BP, high BMI, etc) and then just bought an APAP (then another APAP, and then a BPAP) after that and started using it without ever doing a proper sleep study due to a combination of high insurance deductible and the fact that I resemble the old adage that "doctors make the worst patients".
What I found over time was that I needed to bring my EPAP all the way up to a min of 17 in order to have an AHI consistently under 5. With the first post in this thread, I just wanted to get some input as to whether I could be wrong all this time about my diagnosis, so I dropped my pressure all the way down and did this test shown above. The night prior to that, I used CPAP 7 EPR3 and got an intermediate result (fwiw had some nasal congestion from a resolving cold):
Some "highlights":
All of it points to OSA, but I still have a sliver of doubt since I didn't do it the right way.
I did recently do a type 2 home sleep study from this online service:
http://axgsleepdiagnostics.com/product/c...nattended/
Unfortunately I spent little of the study night sleeping - had a lot of anxiety about whether the leads might fall off or the battery die on the test unit. Hopefully I slept enough to get a diagnosis!
Anyway, thanks again, everyone. I will wait for my study results and share them when they arrive!